Question:
Halloween - is it just me or does any one else object to being held to ransom by gangs of masked teens?
ozzysheeplover
2006-10-22 07:14:08 UTC
am i just being mean ?

why the hell should i give sweets or money to a bunch of kids acting out a 'tradition' imported from america.

And if i say no my house is egged back to the stone age

am i wrong ???

discuss
48 answers:
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:16:07 UTC
Every Halloween I turn all the lights and appliances off, and sit in the dark brooding about how I wasn't allowed to go trick or treating.

I don't answer the door, and I don't move from my spot on the sofa.

I just wait, and brood, getting angrier and angrier.

I'd recommend this approach.
katy1pm
2006-10-22 07:47:08 UTC
I live in Glasgow and children have dressed up for Hallowe'en for a LONG time. The tradition was always known as "guisin'". Always home-made outfits, moustaches drawn on with the burnt end of a cork etc. Teenagers never did it, kids I think got too "cool" for it before they were teenagers. There has never been any "Trick or Treat" element to it. The children would each sing a song or do some other "party piece" to earn a toffee apple, sweets or nuts. And at least where I live, it's still like this, although with more shop bought outfits. It's the Trick or Treat element that has been imported, NOT the dressing up or anything else. as it is from ancient Celtic tradition. The american pumpkin comes from the Scots/Irish turnip lanterns which were used to carry a burning ember home from the communal fire, to light one in each house. We still make turnip lanterns here.



I think the Trick or Treat element stinks and parents should be supervising their kids on hallowe'en, not encouraging them into vandalism.
prepishippie
2006-10-22 08:18:56 UTC
I think 12 year olds, it should be their last year. the 13-17 year olds should have a party, or go to a movie dressed up or something equally fun. If they have to take their younger sibling out, thats a different story, might as well give them something for thier trouble! But only if thiers one or two of them. You don't need 5 15yr olds to walk around the block with a 11 year old!!! anyone 18 or older should stay home & pass out candy or go to a party or something!!! They can still dress up, get even more into it. They can even have friends over to help pass out treats!!!



If I see anyone that looks older then 14, I'm telling them their too old & to go buy their own bag!!! ( I say looks older then 14, cause their are some 12 year olds that look older then their age)



I don't mean to sound old, I'm only 22!!! I just know I didn't go out after I was 12, even though I still look young enough & am short enough, that I could probley still pass for 12!!! I also know when I was 15, I had a job. If I had the money I would go buy my own bag of candy (usually twizzlers or starbursts). Don't they feel silly knocking on peoples doors & sometimes haveing people thier own age handing the candy out???
anonymous
2006-10-22 15:17:30 UTC
To all those saying 'brighten up' etc...



It's all very well when it's 6/7 year olds, but the darling hooded teenagers are starting to use halloween as an excuse to cause trouble. And yes, it can be intimidating.



It's so close to bonfire night, I'm sure there have been cases of fireworks through letter boxes as well as eggs etc when 'treats' are refused. One family I knew got their house regularly egged for a number of years just for explaining why they don't do halloween.



I don't know how widespread Mischief Night is - the night before Halloween when certain teenagers think it is their right to throw eggs, flour, toilet paper and worse at everything and everyone in their vicinity. It's widespread in Liverpool and very intimidating.



Trick or treating is an American import. If you must celebrate halloween, stick to good old British traditions of turnip carving and bob-apple, I say!
Greanwitch
2006-10-22 07:49:03 UTC
Oh lighten up! It is not only teenagers but also small children who enjoy this harmless fun of dress up and going door to door. Hey you never know who you might meet if you keep your door open. And maybe you will have children some day. Then what? Halloween is mainly a secular holiday for most people and as I said the source of a harmless fun day for many children. I'd say lets encourage children to have harmless kinds of fun...like you say you don't want them egging your house. And now a days with the gangsta culture violent as it is, it may turn out to be a cause of something far worse than an egging. Too many of them are using guns and violence this day. That's why I continue to call for the return of the simple ideas of love and peace...not such a radical idea but unfortunately they still are. You can encourage love and peace by allowing and encouraging children and teens to have fun and enjoy themselves in ways that are harmless. Hey why not dress up and have fun yourself? You'll feel a lot better!
anonymous
2016-05-22 02:16:08 UTC
You sound intelligent enough, but don't forget that adults have been in more of similar situations. It doesn't stop when you are of legal age and you will be faced with worse experiences. They are not ganging up on you; they are simply trying to prepare you for things to come, to which being a teenager is not by far a match. Being a teenager won't last forever; your life *will* change and that is simply what they want to make you realise. I'm 23 years old now, hardly a teenager anymore but still young. I was like you now are when I was your age; rebellious and a bit too wise beyond my years. I questioned the motives of the adults "ganging up" on me and not leaving me be, but now... having lived in the real and unprotected world for a few years, I have enough experience to admit that those adults were right to express their attitude towards me. There are a lot of wise lessons to learn from the things adults tell you. So listen to them.
Nicola H
2006-10-22 16:09:16 UTC
All Hallows eve is an English tradition exported to the states!



They turned it around and made it a wonderful 'holiday.'



In the states its far better organised and its really lovely to see and take part in! People dress up their houses and as Americans are a friendly nation most know their neighbours kids! Theres no egging or flouring. That's the nasty part us Brits invented.



I love Halloween and giving the kids and teens sweets! I dress up too and decorate the house and say 'Happy Halloween' to my trick or treaters!



Loosen up! Its only a few sweets!
Dr David
2006-10-22 07:56:41 UTC
Halloween used to be a good night out with a bit of harmless fun.

unfortunately, it has turned out all wrong.



Lots of children nowadays seem to make it an excuse for causing damage to property, and using threats against the public to give them money.



I'm sorry to say, but this is the age we live in.



On a lighter note however, there is still hope. In my area youngsters come round in all sorts of weired costumes, with their parents, and collect money for charity.



With the help of the police, and better parental guidance, lets hope the evil side of Halloween, as you have mentioned, becomes a thing of the past.
theoldecrone
2006-10-25 12:46:23 UTC
You arent being mean, when i was small (im 38 now eek) we used to gouge out turnips and put a candle in them -then come to bob for apples. Now its a begging festival. If you give kids sweets they look like they have been short changed. If you dont open door after 8 (as we do) the house is in danger.



I wonder what the pagan ppl who are celebrating sahmain feel that their religious festival has been hijacked by american clap trap and hoodies given legit reaons to harrass ppl.
Florence-Anna
2006-10-23 04:13:53 UTC
Make sure there are no visible lights on from the front of the house, and don't forget to keep any sound down. They don't usually bother to knock on a door if they think there's no one in, if they do then they're probably up to no good and using Halloween as an excuse for something else. Be prepared.



Come to think of it, if they're masked teens, they're probably up to no good anyway. In the area where I live young children are accompanied by adults (parents) and don't usually make a nuisance of themselves.
QueenDorkus
2006-10-23 11:12:57 UTC
Why do so many people complain about teenagers trick or treating, or just wanting money?



Hello, it's the one time in the year where we get tons of sweets! For free! As far as I know, I'm 15 and I LOVE trick or treating, and none of the teenagers in my area have egged anyone on halloween. So.. whats going on, hm?
leekier
2006-10-22 15:50:41 UTC
Halloween used to vary from one part of the country to another. When I was a child in the north east we all went out with 'tuggie' (turnip) lanterns to scare the witches who were supposed to be about. NO door knocking or begging for sweeties.

Scottish friends used to go guising which seems to be similar. In Yorkshire there was always a nastier tradition of mischief night on 30th not 31st October. That involved all tricks and no expectation of treats.

Trick or treat is an American custom and they can keep it.
Buzz s
2006-10-22 07:23:27 UTC
So you don't undertake alternative actions? What happens if you turn the lights out upstairs and go somewhere else? The house doesn't get touched when this happens, but giving out candies the "kids" don't like means that the house is egged.
?
2006-10-23 02:00:06 UTC
i actually love the season of Halloween - it's Xmas i can't stand. I don't celebrate it, I don't want anything from anybody, i don't care for anything about it. Imagine the pressure to respond with "Merry Christmas" to some loose-lipped cashier who couldn't just say have a nice day like she does for the other 11 months of the Year.

Then at work, I do everything I can to avoid xmas parties, decorating, etc. I make it very clear I ain't doin' it........then some flower-sniffing, tree-hugging, crystal rubber, has to come over and give me a gift anyway..........AAAHHHH!
Angel-Lady
2006-10-22 11:02:39 UTC
I don't agree with this trick or treating because old people are afraid to open the doors at night, and children who are on there own could get kidnapped or worse, I have also found that kids today don't want fruit or sweets, they all want money and I wont give them that because they get fireworks with the money, so I don't answer the door.
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:18:48 UTC
No, I agree. I HATE Hallowe'en. I don't think its mean, or anything, but it just is sort of intimidating, I suppose, to think that you have no option but to give these kids sweets. If you say trick, which I often do, there is an embarrassing pause in which they look at you like they asked for the time, and you answered "4 apples." If they want sweets, then why don't they just say so?
anonymous
2006-10-23 08:41:40 UTC
I totally object to it, its a form of begging, try giving them sweets round here were we live and they throw them back at you and demand money, they no longer come to our house as a few years ago I put a red jumper on, turned all the lights down low, got a torch and stuck it up my jumper and switched it on, you look like the devil when you do that and it scares the life out of them, none of them have come back since thankfully.
Kizzy_
2006-10-22 07:20:55 UTC
I started a few years ago just giving out sweets, now i only get young children to the door. The teenagers jus want money so they wont knock next time if you dont give em dosh.
bundjean
2006-10-22 07:42:19 UTC
Just be glad you haven't been dealt the "flamin' bag-o-poo" yet!



I never gave out money on trick-or-treat. It cost enough just to buy the dagnabbed candy!



When I was young, we made popcorn balls, caramel apples, and baked cookies. That ended when dastardly people began putting harmful things in these items and giving them out to unsuspecting young children!!!



After that, Halloween was never fun anymore. All treats had to be examined for potential deadly items. That's when Halloween parties began to be the "in" thing.



Nowadays, people stay in their own neighborhoods to go trick-or-treating, hoping that their neighbors are part of the "good guys."



Happy Halloween!
lilly
2006-10-22 07:38:42 UTC
I love Halloween but I won't answer the door for anyone who looks to be over the age of 12. Teens just aren't cute...obnoxious and loud but not cute.
Narilka
2006-10-22 07:38:47 UTC
I live in America and I love Halloween. Its supposed to be fun. Cute little kids dressing up in cute little costumes going trick or treating. You’re supposed to admire the costumes before giving candy. If they’re not wearing a costume they don’t get candy. Ideally its supposed to be just kids trick or treating, not teenagers.

If you don’t want to participate then turn off your outside/porch light. You shouldn’t get bothered if your light is off.
deccaboo
2006-10-24 06:48:18 UTC
I don't celebrate Halloween, I'm a Witch and I celebrate Samhain. I have a feast and wine and a jolly good old time and if anyone knocks on my door the most they get is a 'Bright Blessings on this Samhain Night!'
Nunya M
2006-10-22 07:22:40 UTC
If you don't care to participate just leave your outside light off. Anyone that knows the 'rules' of trick or treat knows that you are not participating. You can also try this... Put a large (empty) halloween bowl with a note that reads 'please take one' on it on you your doorstep. Then people think that you were participating but ran out... I'd still leave the light off...lol
Mogseye
2006-10-22 07:24:03 UTC
The local supermarket here has banned the sale of eggs to under 16's. Its a start. We usually end up with things the Yanks have dreamt up, its all the US TV we are exposed to.
david c
2006-10-22 12:49:04 UTC
Yes I do. It is the same with Bonfire night where kids beg for money for the guy. Most of the time they do not have a guy or if they do it is pathetic. The same applies to carol singers. Most of them only sing a couple of lines.
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:24:06 UTC
I think you are being mean because i am 13, and love halloween! if you dont want to give out candy, then turn all your lights off and dont decorate, or just have a sign on your door saying sorry not home, and have a bowl of candy on your door step.
anonymous
2006-10-22 13:14:26 UTC
No, it's not just you! I will be pretending to not be at home. It may seem mean to the kids, but hey, I like to locked in my home, where I can feel safe and secure.



I don't know that they will not annoy me, through stuff at me if I don't give them what they want in thier goody bag, or curse at me!



LOCK YOUR DOOR, TURN OFF THE LIGHTS AND HIDE BEHIND THE SOFA - they will get the message and leave you alone!
anonymous
2006-10-22 11:44:16 UTC
lol. Then don't have candy at your house and turn off your lights. Don't say no, just pretend you're not home. Why are you opening the door to say "no" anyway?



Frankly, I like the tradition personally.
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:20:11 UTC
No, it's not just you. Trick or treat is a form of extortion, like a protection racket, extracting money with menaces. I stand there with a hosepipe and dare them to go for the trick.
♦Hollywood's Finest♦
2006-10-22 07:23:07 UTC
Man, grow up. Its just kids wanting to have a good time. If you really don't want to deal with it, why don't you go out on Halloween or something? That way you won't be there, they can't really hold it against you if you're just not home.
scotlandsno1yummymummy
2006-10-22 07:32:17 UTC
I don't know what area you live in mate, but i think it must be a different planet from me. My children only go to houses of people that thy know, and whats wrong with you have you never been a kid were you brought into this world as an adult, you poor sod.Are you one of those who also has no Christmas spirit, And if thy are throwing eggs at your house well buy two dozen your self and through them back, that will give them a shock.
Katrina Van Tassel
2006-10-22 07:19:49 UTC
Hey, count yourself lucky that you even get a chance to say yes. Our house gets a nice coating of tissue paper and eggs every year for no apparent reason.

We have a feeling it's because of the car.

Shoot the little b*****s the next time they come round.
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:24:22 UTC
I happen to agree. It is a shame that people haven't taught their children better than to egg peoples houses if they don't get their way. :::thinking of ways to avenge all the poor folk who have been egged::::



:::rigging doorbell to zap children when they ring it on halloween:::
anonymous
2006-10-24 11:27:01 UTC
Why not dress up yourself as an evil wicked witch, preferably in black and when anyone comes to your door, offer them rotting fruit and black mushrooms. Scream horrible bad witch spells and curse a lot.
?
2006-10-22 07:19:06 UTC
i ve got this aproach 2 halloween . i get a ugly mask and when kids ring the bell i open the door and scare the **** out of them by screamin using my mask and runnin 2 them . u must c them runnin away from me ! it works !
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:22:29 UTC
Halloween isn't just america, though, read on:

The Celts, who lived 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. Celts believed that on the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. On the night of October 31, they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. In addition to causing trouble and damaging crops, Celts thought that the presence of the otherworldly spirits made it easier for the Druids, or Celtic priests, to make predictions about the future. For a people entirely dependent on the volatile natural world, these prophecies were an important source of comfort and direction during the long, dark winter.



To commemorate the event, Druids built huge sacred bonfires, where the people gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities.



During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other's fortunes. When the celebration was over, they re-lit their hearth fires, which they had extinguished earlier that evening, from the sacred bonfire to help protect them during the coming winter.



By A.D. 43, Romans had conquered the majority of Celtic territory. In the course of the four hundred years that they ruled the Celtic lands, two festivals of Roman origin were combined with the traditional Celtic celebration of Samhain.



The first was Feralia, a day in late October when the Romans traditionally commemorated the passing of the dead. The second was a day to honor Pomona, the Roman goddess of fruit and trees. The symbol of Pomona is the apple and the incorporation of this celebration into Samhain probably explains the tradition of "bobbing" for apples that is practiced today on Halloween.



By the 800s, the influence of Christianity had spread into Celtic lands. In the seventh century, Pope Boniface IV designated November 1 All Saints' Day, a time to honor saints and martyrs. It is widely believed today that the pope was attempting to replace the Celtic festival of the dead with a related, but church-sanctioned holiday. The celebration was also called All-hallows or All-hallowmas (from Middle English Alholowmesse meaning All Saints' Day) and the night before it, the night of Samhain, began to be called All-hallows Eve and, eventually, Halloween.

Even later, in A.D. 1000, the church would make November 2 All Souls' Day, a day to honor the dead. It was celebrated similarly to Samhain, with big bonfires, parades, and dressing up in costumes as saints, angels, and devils. Together, the three celebrations, the eve of All Saints', All Saints', and All Souls', were called Hallowmas.





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Servings: 48

Categories: Desserts

Amount Measure Ingredient

1 batch Basic Sugar Cookies

1 cup blanched almonds

1 tablespoon red food coloring



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Work with one half of the dough at a time and keep the remainder refrigerated. Scoop dough into tablespoonful-sized balls. Roll each piece of dough into a finger shape. Press 1 almond, pointy-end out, firmly into 1 end of cookie finger to form a nail. Press the tines of a fork lightly into the dough just below the nail and in the center of the finger to form knuckles.



Place cookies, about 1-inch apart, on parchment-lined cookie sheets; bake for about 10 to 15 minutes or until pale golden. When cookies are done, let cool on cookie sheet for 3 minutes. Remove cookies to platter to cool completely. Repeat with remaining dough and almonds.

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Also you don't have to give them money or a treat remember, it's TRICK OR TREAT! Play a trick on them!
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:20:52 UTC
Ironically, it's the parents of these thugs that are claining they are feeling threatened by deeply religious woman in hijaabs.



Give 'em ex-lax cookies.
F T
2006-10-22 07:21:45 UTC
Leave your home at five, turn off all the lights, return at 9 PM.
bty937915
2006-10-22 07:18:21 UTC
Yer right on they get on my t?ts, why did it have to come over from America, we never heard of it when we were kids
Roxy.
2006-10-24 09:16:17 UTC
I go out, if the cars not in the drive they tend to miss you out.
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:36:53 UTC
I'm putting a sign up this year...



NO CALLERS - BEWARE OF THE LARGE DOG
gam389
2006-10-22 07:19:51 UTC
eggs aint good/give um the candy & you have made new buddies and most likly will look after your property in the future!!!
anonymous
2006-10-25 17:45:45 UTC
Must be you mostly. leave your porch light off if you don't want to particapate.
forest lover
2006-10-22 07:22:38 UTC
all u have to do is turn your porchlight off,kids realize no candy here.
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:20:56 UTC
give em a 12 gauge treat...
akasha
2006-10-22 07:18:37 UTC
|They no longer come to my door they egg me I egg em right back
anonymous
2006-10-22 07:32:17 UTC
its not even a UK tradition...i hate it as much as you must do
Fudgie
2006-10-22 07:23:01 UTC
charity begins at home...


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