Why is that depressing?
I believe the Gods love the world They've created... but I don't see any evidence that Their love is like that of a mother or father to children. To me, the Gods love us as an artist loves His artwork... as a novelist loves Her characters. It's not a coddling, nurturing patronage full of cuddles, kisses, rainbows and infinite indulgence. She isn't our granny who exists only to spoil us with sweets. Instead, it's a love and respect for that which has been created, an aknowledgement of our deep nature whether that be constructive or destructive, whether She has something horrible in store for us or something beautiful, it is all the same to Her and it is up to us to make meaning from it and to admire Her unbelievably stunning divine workmanship... it is up to us to pay Her what respect we wish to pay Her if we are so inclined to offer such respect. No, the Goddess does not exist just to please us... She is much more complex, breathtakingly beautiful and amazing than that!!
To me, I love my Gods whether or not They love me because I am astounded by Their infinite creativity and beauty even in the darkest hours... even in Their terrible ferocity, I love Them... not because I am obligated to, but because I genuinely am moved in my soul by Their mere existence and I must, therefore, accept Their nature as They accept mine (as They must, for They are responsible for my nature, having created me.) I am humbled and honored to be part of Their amazing creation.
According to many pagan and polytheistic beliefs, however, one may develop personal relationships with deities... that would mean that They are indeed aware of us and can interact with us... I don't believe They are "just kinda there," whatever that means... is this person insinuating that the deities have more important things to focus on than one little earthling species? Well, then yes, I agree... but if they are insinuating that the deities don't care, well, than I disagree, but I will point out that I believe the deities may not care about the same things we care about... and why should They?
This is a deeply personal understanding of the deities and you shouldn't let someone elses perception upset you... learn from it, decide if it makes sense to you, figure out if your experience of deity is similar or different to this persons and then move ahead.
Blessings,
-Scarlet